RichTBikkies
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Post by RichTBikkies on Jul 13, 2021 23:43:20 GMT
It's 0040 BST on Wednesday 14th July (Bastille Day!) and past my bed-time. So, up the wooden hills to Bedfordshire for me! More tomorrow on the Meaning of Life.
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Post by LFC on Jul 14, 2021 13:07:29 GMT
When I say "worked well" I mean in my own life. The way I approach my marriage is a good example. I generally view it as working well when it makes her happy but does not make me unhappy. There's a reward, a big one, to seeing her happy. It helps that she feels the same way. The result is a marriage the likes of which I've only seen in my own parents. I saw what they had, knew that's what I wanted, and did what it took to get there. Maybe that's why it took me until age 26 to finally find the right woman. Heck, I hadn't even been head over heels before that and now 34 years later I can honestly say that even with some of the hardships we've faced I've never had even a remote second guess on my choice. That looks like a lot of babbling. I hope it makes sense. I never really put much thought into whether or not specific sources of "morality" guided me. I have seen horrible outcomes when people have clung to a single source and interpreter though. Not babbling at all. Very moving and to the point. Thank you.
Speaking of marriage it's been 31 years today!
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Post by Bact PhD on Jul 14, 2021 14:34:14 GMT
Not babbling at all. Very moving and to the point. Thank you. Speaking of marriage it's been 31 years today! Congrats!
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andydp
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Post by andydp on Jul 14, 2021 14:57:33 GMT
Speaking of marriage it's been 31 years today! Congrats! Happy Anniversary you lovebirds !!
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Post by Bact PhD on Jul 14, 2021 15:17:21 GMT
But what are these "sources of guidance"? How does one determine if they "worked well in the past"? The latter phrase suggests "criteria" to me. Can one have criteria that do not amount to, or at least derive from, "philosophy, ideology or concept"? Perhaps you, LFC, could mention some sources of guidance that you use fairly regularly, and explain how you decided that they worked well for in the past? (If possible, without using the word "obvious" because I feel it would beg too many questions at this juncture). Me? I'm more a scientific experiment kind of guy. Try something, see if it works, and if so continue with it. I don't have a particular written philosophy et al that I read for guidance. My parents raised me with a set of rules, some that came with their Catholic religion and others which did not. Some I accepted and others I didn't. I'm an amalgam of things I've picked up without actually knowing most of the sources. I think that may be why the belief that "THIS is THE source" bothers me so much. I don't believe a flawless guide to life exists and I believe that some of the biggest ones cited are brimming with flaws. I'd say something similar occurred in my case. There were certain things I picked up sort of by osmosis from my parents (one staunchly Catholic, but influenced by Unitarian relatives; one assuredly agnostic, but at least somewhat influenced by the Protestantism of his youth); there were certain ideas from my parents that I ended up rejecting by mid-life. I would be lying if I said my Catholic upbringing didn't influence my way of looking at things, but "influencing the viewpoints and choices of one individual" isn't the same as "dictating the choices of every member of society."
Agreed re the single source and interpreter.
Somehow, I'm reminded of the old Carlin bit "Why We Don't Need Ten Commandments":
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Post by LFC on Jul 15, 2021 1:32:17 GMT
Somehow, I'm reminded of the old Carlin bit "Why We Don't Need Ten Commandments": It's been a long time but I've had multiple online discussions with people trying to say that the basis of American law was the Ten Commandments. My instant reply was "You need to read them again, this time for comprehension." The first 4 are religious so nope. Honor your mother and father? How nice. Again, nope. No coveting? That's 6 down. No adultery? Not anymore but admittedly it's on squishier ground. No murder, theft, or "false witness." OK, OK, and only under oath or when filing a police report.
Now let's look at those last 4 and ask ourselves, are they really original to the Ten Commandments or are they some of the most universal guardrails of behavior historically cutting across multiple civilizations that never even knew each other existed? To sum it up, the most cursory reading makes it abundantly clear that saying the Ten Commandments are the basis of our legal system is clearly "bearing false witness." Just sayin'.
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Jul 16, 2021 13:17:40 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Jul 16, 2021 13:31:17 GMT
Not terribly out-of-the-ordinary or difficult for people who extol the virtues of willingness to sacrifice one's child to humor God. Insane is still the appropriate description.
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Post by LFC on Jul 17, 2021 23:30:16 GMT
Now that half of SCOTUS is from the god squad the Christianists are demanding that they be allowed to ram religion down our throats.
Expect a huge flury of magnetic bumper stickers being created that will mock the shit out of the "In God We Trust" license plates.
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Jul 18, 2021 13:08:14 GMT
At first I read that as "In God We Thrust".
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pnwguy
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Post by pnwguy on Jul 18, 2021 13:25:01 GMT
At first I read that as "In God We Thrust". That would be the missionary position on the subject 😉
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Jul 18, 2021 13:35:07 GMT
Holy hand maiden's tale!
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Jul 18, 2021 14:02:52 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2021 14:22:40 GMT
You shouldn't be surprised. According to a an ex Fox News personality, with relevance once and now seeking desperately to become relevant once more, Santa is white and it only stands to reason God must be white. No wonder immaculate conception resulted in a blue-eyed white baby. See? Not a puzzle.
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Post by LFC on Jul 23, 2021 15:26:45 GMT
Interesting take on the people, particularly Evangelicals, who are drawn to authoritarianism. The discussion is a response to one journalists interpretation that loneliness draws people to these types of movements and that more engagement is required. The author makes a counter case that many of these people are in fact in highly social groups like Evangelical churches but and engagement won't move the needle even a bit because of how they've been taught to function since they were infants.
Here's a point that I think makes a lot of sense and which I find very scary. It goes straight to the heart of quote "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities." They've been programmed to believe there's a greater purpose and they'll cling to whichever one comes past. All else is secondary to this greater purpose. And nothing drives that quite like abusive religions.
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Post by pnwguy on Jul 23, 2021 15:39:31 GMT
Rawstory is often a good aggregator of stories, but they sure sell ad space to some of the worse click-baiters and counter-programmers.
This is the problem with journalism in the 21st century -- reliable funding.
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Post by LFC on Jul 23, 2021 16:22:05 GMT
Rawstory is often a good aggregator of stories, but they sure sell ad space to some of the worse click-baiters and counter-programmers. This is the problem with journalism in the 21st century -- reliable funding. I won't visit without my ad blocker, tracker blocker, and auto-play video blocker on. There was a period of time where I wouldn't visit at all because it was so bad even with all of those running. They were serving up 50+ ad hits, 20+ trackers, and autoplays that dodged my blocker. If I had 10 story tabs open (that's how I use sites like that) my machine would grind to a halt plus individual pages would display slooooowwwwly as it rendered one animated ad after another. Apparently they realized they went too far and have backed off a bit.
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Jul 23, 2021 22:51:35 GMT
Interesting take on the people, particularly Evangelicals, who are drawn to authoritarianism. The discussion is a response to one journalists interpretation that loneliness draws people to these types of movements and that more engagement is required. The author makes a counter case that many of these people are in fact in highly social groups like Evangelical churches but and engagement won't move the needle even a bit because of how they've been taught to function since they were infants. I remember seeing some statistics on who gives the most. On the surface it seems to be members from various churches, it turns out that any highly social group has the same effect, even if non-religious.
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Post by LFC on Jul 23, 2021 23:40:30 GMT
I remember seeing some statistics on who gives the most. On the surface it seems to be members from various churches, it turns out that any highly social group has the same effect, even if non-religious. I'd be interested in seeing those numbers after you subtract the "charitable" donations to their own churches which is basically for the upkeep of their clubhouse, not for an actual charitable cause. Mitt Romney gave a lot of money to "charity" which meant the Mormon Church.
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Jul 27, 2021 3:06:56 GMT
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andydp
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Post by andydp on Aug 28, 2021 15:18:55 GMT
Stop me if you heard this before: Young lady is raped and victimized by adult church youth director. She goes public and...is accused of "leading the adult on". Lawsuit: Troy church ignored youth pastor's abuse, claimed child 'led him on'At the time of the abuse, the lawsuit said, Hallock’s wife sent the child several letters acknowledging that she had informed the leadership of Grace Baptist Church of Hallock’s involvement with the child. “Rather than inquire as to why (the child) was receiving letters from the Pastor Larry Hallock’s wife, the church leadership did nothing,” the lawsuit said. “Later when the abuse came to light, they stated the plaintiff had ‘led him on.’ More, Grace Baptist Church leadership has stated because plaintiff didn’t ‘cry for help’ she was culpable for the abuse perpetrated upon her.” WAIT ! THERE'S MORE !!Grace Baptist Church and its pastor, the Rev. John Koletas, have attracted attention in the past for AR-15 rife giveaways,*** including one in late June 2020 amid protests in the aftermath of the May 25, 2020, police killing of George Floyd in Minneapolis. Police were called after protesters blocked the door of the church. (*** A fitting way to pay tribute to the "Prince of Peace".) www.timesunion.com/news/article/Lawsuit-Troy-church-ignored-youth-pastor-s-16414034.php?cmpid=115195&utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_content=headlines&utm_campaign=tu_dailyheadlines&sid=593181aa3f92a45314a6107f
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Post by LFC on Aug 28, 2021 16:40:12 GMT
Stop me if you heard this before: Boys who never grew up and the system that supports them.
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Post by goldenvalley on Aug 28, 2021 18:40:34 GMT
Stop me if you heard this before: Young lady is raped and victimized by adult church youth director. She goes public and...is accused of "leading the adult on". But women are evil and clearly the devil was in this young lady. She deserves no protection.
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AnBr
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Post by AnBr on Aug 28, 2021 23:15:12 GMT
But women are evil and clearly the devil was in this young lady. She deserves no protection.
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Post by LFC on Aug 30, 2021 14:15:34 GMT
But women are evil and clearly the devil was in this young lady. She deserves no protection. "Original sin." They blame women for men's lack of self control right out of the gate.
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